Wednesday, December 30, 2015

Computer building

About 17 months ago, Hayden decided he wanted a gaming computer. He knew they were way out of his price range but thought if he and his dad could build one, it would be more doable. Hayden knew we didn't have any discretionary funds for computer parts so the acquiring of the co outer karts would all be his responsibility. He received a couple of parts for Christmas 2014 and then worked all year to earn enough to purchase the rest of the parts.

He saved every dime he made, worked odd jobs, sold Legos and other items, earned money every chance he got and watched sales and garage sales for parts. It was his first Black Friday and cyber Monday scouring the sites for good deals. 

With his last bit of birthday money, he finally earned the almost $600 to purchase the rest of the parts. Putting the computer together has been a sheer joy for Dad and son. They have loved he time together and Hayden has been so excited to learn and get his computer up and running. 

Unfortunately, a minor setback with the graphics card having to be replaced. So the computer isn't up yet but any day now he replacement part should come. 

I love all that Hayden has learned in this process. He has learned patience, long suffering, waiting, wanting to earn something, working hard for something, and realizing all the different ways to achieve your dreams. 

I can't wait until he plays his first game and reals the reward of his hard work and patience. 

Also, with him working to earn this money, he is more appreciative of all we do for him. Even paying him a little extra for washing baseboards or painting, as he has never earned allowance or paid for doing regular household chores, or working as a family, but only on extra paid duties. 

I'm so grateful we didn't help but helped provide him with options to earn money, he has grown beyond our greatest dreams. He has appreciated all gifts more and is grateful for not only money but he opportunity to earn it. What a gift. He has made me so proud. He has grown up and achieving what I only dreamed. I sure love and adore my boy!

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